Is God enough for you?
I
can see that this is a question directed at me. It's personal. Is God enough
for me? Is he? It is a "yes"
and "no" answer for
me.
I
know this sounds like a paradoxical non-answer (or an archetype evasion), but then, my response to difficult
question is to suspend the urge to answer them or to answer them with
open-ended caveats (or I cheekily call it an anti-answer). Due to the
limitation of my knowledge and experiences, it is difficult for me to answer
affirmatively and still maintain my honesty about my true feelings.
I
always admire those who can answer “yes” to that question without any
reservation whatsoever. Could the problem
then lie with me? Could it be an issue of personal surrender or the lack of it?
Could I have unconfessed sins that are hindering my walk with God?
Or
maybe, if I may turn the table around, with respect of course, and ask, could
it be that people who answers that question with an unreserved “yes” are
merely influenced by confirmation bias (favoring evidence that supports their
belief and dismissing those that do not)? Or maybe they have chosen to take the
rule-of-thumb approach in answering it, that is, endorsing convenient
conclusion or mirroring the views of others? Too presumptuous?
I
know that some people out there may label me as a wet blanket. Why think so much? Why don’t just take the
leap of faith? Why bother about matters that don’t concern me? I once
expressed my doubts to a Christian of many years and he smiled at me with
unfazed conviction, and said, “Why you
bother about the sufferings in this world? It’s not your business. You just
believe. God will take care of the rest.”
So,
taking the road of least resistance, I may just as well answer it this way,
"Ok, God is more than enough for me.
That’s for sure. But for those times I am in doubt because I choose to apply my
God-endowed mind to work, I nevertheless still accept that answer by faith,
unquestioned, unreserved." How’s
that? Too presumptuous?
For some, that would be a good enough answer, and they would be
satisfied if I’d just left it at that and progress to more positive scriptural
confessions. I mean, for some people, especially those riding on a postmillennial,
apocalyptic soul train, the struggles of trials and doubts that follow are
just the price one pay for keeping the faith. And since doubts are
unquestionably unedifying, faith must always take precedence over doubts. Always.
Another
reason I hesitate to answer that question is because I don't take it lightly. I
am a Christian realist. And I am endeavoring to answer that question from a
limited human perspective. So, expect my answer to be of probational value and
subject to appropriate tweaking as I advance in my faith; sometimes even taking
cautious, light steps when treading on uncharted thin-ice terrains of human
sufferings and pain.
FYI,
I have been a Christian for 28 years at aged 15. In these 28 years, my answers
to that question pendulums between yes and no. Maybe more "yes" than
"no" over the years. Here’s why.
I
recall CS Lewis once said that he who has God and everything has no more than
he who has God alone. So, God is all a believer needs from CSL's perspective. What does this actually mean?
I
guess it means that God takes precedent over all worldly desires. He is
everything. Nothing brings more joy and peace than to worship God. No amount of
fame and fortune can rival that same deep sensation of pleasure. A person who
endorses that conviction is basically a Christian hedonist, that is, "the greatest pleasure is to worship God, bar
none."
But is this a consistent conviction
throughout one's life, without exceptions? For me, it is difficult to answer "yes" and still be completely honest with myself. But it is just me I guess.
I sometimes feel that God is not enough. Now let me be bolder but no less
honest. I sometimes even feel that God could have done better. Of course I
share this with apology. An apology offered for my human-ness.
When
his wife (Joy) died of cancer, CSL cried out, "Is God a cosmic sadist or a spiteful imbecile?" I believe if
one had asked him the same question then, "Is God enough for you?", the answer would most likely be
withheld, at least during the time of mourning. Or maybe not.
Is God enough for anyone in a trial
that is seemingly relentless? Is God enough in the face of the death of a loved
one despite earnest prayer? Is God enough when one's heart is pained by a
betrayal like an adultery? The
Rolodex of suffering goes on.
For
CSL, the pain even drove him to write a book entitled "A Grief Observed" where he lamented,
"What chokes every prayer and every
hope is the memory of all the prayer Joy and I offered and all the false hopes
we had...step by step we were led up the garden path. Time and time, when He
seemed most gracious He was really preparing the next torture."
Seriously, the next torture?
Of
course CSL grew stronger after that but the point is that our faith will be
tested and not knowing its outcome and being only human, it is not surprising
that those in the eye of their own storm would feel abandoned, doubt-ridden and
lost. And when such negative feelings overwhelm, it is only natural to turn
one's face away from God. At such times, God seems aloof and distant. He seems
inadequate and restraint. One is thus tempted to scour for doubt-driven alternatives
to explain his absence.
So,
is God's grace sufficient for me? Is His assurances more than a comfort for me
in my trials? Can I trust in Him for strength and hope to brave through hard
times? Is God enough for me? Tough questions - only if you take them seriously I guess.
I
recall one wall graffiti that reads, "I
believe in the sun even when it isn't shining. I believe in love even when I am
alone. I believe in God even when He is silent." I applaud the faith
of the person who wrote that. He or she must have taken the leap of faith and
landed on pillowed ground, which effectively absorbed the impact of the pain of
worldly suffering, mostly senseless and gratuitous. As for me, I am still
holding on to the guardrail, wary, sometimes, uncertain, earnestly searching
for my pillowed ground below, which is occluded by the fog of doubt.
Before
I end, allow me to sidetrack. I think I would like to answer the above question
with a question and it is this, "Have
I had enough of myself?" I believe the answer to this question will
indirectly answer "Is God enough for
me?"
I
think self-love stands in the way of our surrendering to God. So, if I am still
not done with myself, still hoping to serve my own interest, feed my pride and
look for self-glory, God will never be enough for me. Because as long as I do
not empty my heart of self, there is no room for God to fill it.
Going
back full circle, is God enough for me? Honestly,
I am still work in progress, a Christian on his way and a pilgrim trying to
follow the footsteps of his savior. At most times, God is. Sometimes, He is
not. And during such time, I quietly confess my reservations and doubts and
wait upon Him to renew my strength. Sometimes the wait can take longer than is
necessary in my view. And faith takes a beating as doubt overwhelms.
In
the end, I believe that some find their God in times of prosperity. Some find
their God in a celebration. Some find Him in a moment of epiphany. Others find
Him in their personal pain, in sorrow and along the corridor of death. But in
all these rendezvous with the divine, the most enduring encounter is the God
who reveals Himself in the furnace of our doubt. Cheerz.
Thanks so much for your article. Your honest expression of your doubts, while still holding strong to the things that you do believe helped me to really reflect on my own personal beliefs and doubts. One of my friends, Michael, wrote an article about his observations on how doubt works within a community of believers at http://www.reallifeanswers.org/everyday-faith/do-believers-doubt-to-those-who-doubt-part-1/ I'd love to hear your take on how/if doubt can help to strengthen faith. Thanks so much and I look forward to your next post!
ReplyDeleteThanks Alex for taking the time. Your encouragement is refreshing. Will deal with doubt sooner or later. Will also read your friend's article too. Once again, thanks and take care. Cheerz.
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