When
I die, I want to die knowing that I have lived a life of few regrets. I want to
know that those few regrets I have are for things I have done in my life rather
than for things I have not done. And for those things I have done in my life
that I regret, I want to know that they are not for the lack of trying but for
the lack of opportunity. So, when I die, I want to die knowing that I have
tried my best and doing my best is what defines my life when I die.
When
I die, I want to die knowing that I have loved more than I have not. I want to
know that my love is more unconditional than they are conditional. And for
those times when I have loved unconditionally, I want to know that I have made
a difference in the life of others. I want to know that this difference is
enduring rather than shortlived. So, when I die, I want to die knowing that I
have loved unconditionally and to love unconditionally is what defines my life
when I die.
When
I die, I want to die knowing that I have given more than I have taken. I want
to know that the times I have given is to bring joy to others rather than to
bring attention to myself. And for those times when I bring joy to others, I
want to know that my motivation is to uplift a soul in need and not my own
interest that I seek. So when I die, I want to die knowing that I have given
all that I could give and to give all that I could give is what defines my life
when I die.
When
I die, I want to die knowing that I have put relationship before everything
else. I want to know that the bond between loved ones is stronger than the hold
that money, status and power has on me. And for those times when I enjoy my
relationships, I want to know that I find contentment with the things in my possession rather than the things that are not. So, when I die, I want
to die knowing that nothing brings more satisfaction than the joy of
relationships and such satisfaction is what defines my life when I die.
When
I die, I want to die knowing that I have lived a life that my children can be
proud of. I want to know that my children can always look up to me for standing
up to what is right rather than to hide in the shadow of duplicity. And for
those times when I do my children proud, I want to be able to look into their
eyes and tell them that my life is their legacy to follow and not the disgrace
of a life too shallow. So when I die, I want to die knowing that I have set a
good example for my children and this living testimony is what defines my
life when I die.
When
I die, I want to die knowing that I am not perfect. I want to know that my
imperfection however does not stop me from seeking after the perfect. And for
those times when I follow in the footsteps of the perfect, I want to know that
his presence is never too far when I cry out to him. So when I die, I want to
die knowing that my imperfection is made complete in his love and to be privy
to that knowledge is what defines my life when I die.
When
I die, I want to die knowing that my life counts for something. I want to know
that it counts for something that is eternal rather than material. And for
those times when I long for life eternal, I want to know that it is in the
trust of the lover of my soul that my hope is placed and not in the things of this
world that my trust is misplaced. So when I die, I want to die knowing that
there is purpose beyond this life and this purpose is what defines my life when
I die.
So,
I know I will die one day. Who can cheat death? But I guess there is a fate
worse than cheating death in this life. It is one where I cheat myself out of
living. And I do so when I :-
1) regret the lost opportunities in my
life for the lack of trying;
2) fail to make any difference in the
lives of others because my love was always conditional;
3) take more than I give because I was
looking for ways to enrich myself;
4) am always dissatisfied because I
have placed worldly pursuits above meaningful relationships;
5) live a life that my children turn
away in confusion and shame,
6) pretend that my life is beyond
reproach and find no need for personal reflection or examination; and
7) lead a life seeking for immediate
gratification of the things of this world and not for the purpose beyond them.
So,
let me end with these enlightening words, “If
you can begin to see death as an invisible, but friendly, companion on your
life’s journey – gently reminding you not to wait til tomorrow to do what you
mean to do – then you can learn to live your life rather than simply passing
through it.” (Taken from the Foreword of Elisabeth Kubler-Ross’ book “Death: The Final Stage of Growth”).
Cheerz.
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