Recently I went to
a friend’s wake and I heard one of the eulogies rendered which ministered to me
deeply. My friend died of mouth cancer in his early sixties. It was said that
when my friend was told about his condition by the doctor, he exclaimed, “Let’s
celebrate life!”
Wow, celebrate life
in the midst of cancer! How do you even do that? What possessed my friend to
exclaim that? What is there to celebrate when death’s assassin had already put
out a contract on your life?
My friend saw life
in the face of death. He saw hope in the prelude to pain. He saw a future when
there appears none. He saw celebration in the house of mourning. He believed
his moment was every moment he was able to live his life by simply enjoying it,
without conditions.
His life was not
complete only when he had everything the world has to offer. It was not a
series of achievement hoops to be jumped over. His life was complete just by
living it everyday and this completeness made it worth living.
Indeed this is a
life that truly celebrates life. Even in death, the celebration invariably goes
on. It is a festivity in simplicity. And I desire to be invited to his spirit
of celebration. I desire to live life in the midst of pain, disappointment,
failure and mistakes. I desire to celebrate everything, even in the worst of
times. Teach me my friend.
Here’s a tribute to
my friend’s undying spirit to celebrate life:-
Celebrate a tear
for a tear is the beginning of hope.
Celebrate a wound
for healing comes thereafter.
Celebrate a doubt
for a doubt forces one to think with clarity.
Celebrate failure
for success follows failure as dusk shadows dawn.
Celebrate a
betrayal for in our deepest hurt we find the strength to rise up stronger.
Celebrate pain for
in our pain we see the pain of others.
Celebrate regrets
for it reminds us that we are only human.
Celebrate a fall
for in falling forward we take a step closer towards our goal.
Celebrate
disappointments for it keeps us just level with reality.
Celebrate mistakes
without which there will be no learning.
Celebrate a wrong
turn so that we’ll have more time to enjoy the journey.
Celebrate rain for
nothing cools off better in the sun than being wet.
Celebrate an
opportunity lost for its flip side is an opportunity gained.
Celebrate imperfections
because perfection is living hell on a lunch break.
Celebrate change
because every season brings about growth
Celebrate a loss
for the loss releases a refreshing stream of empowering memories.
Finally…
Celebrate life for
life is worth the time and celebration.
CK, in memoriam.
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